The Puzzle Theory is something that I came to realisation after a break-up that I had just experienced.
Well, because of this recent experience, I'll explain it in the context of a couple/lovers/Eros.
But in reality, I would say it would fit into any relationship structure.
There are 4 scenarios here, which I will explain. Perhaps, it will relate to some people more than others:
1) The Perfect Fit
Don't you just feel that some pieces of a Puzzle are really a perfect fit? They slot right in and then stays there. No matter how you shake it, it doesn't really move. The Perfect Fit.
2) A little Effort
Some pieces just don't fit in quite right. But all you need is a little effort to force it in. To fit it in.
And there you have it! Not a perfect fit, but a fit non the less.
3) Not At All
See, some pieces were just not meant to be together. No matter what you do, they just don't fit. No matter how much you try, they simply can't fit in.
4) Too Much Space
At some point, you thought this piece was well placed. It slots in. Then you realised there is so much emptiness.
Well, what do we get out of all these?
Let's just say, regardless of what has happened or is happening, there is always a piece there that will fit us. Is either you try working on it, or if it doesn't work out, then take a step back and look at the big picture. The Puzzle is really huge. With many pieces available, I am sure we'll find one that fits.
Many Blessings!
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- Good Day! I'm Marcus. Do drop me a message regardless who you are! ................ A little more about me: I'm Catholic and my baptism name is Emmanuel. I'm a Journalist by training, but am currently working in Advertising. The course of my life has taken me to a point of understanding that in optimism, lies hope, and with hope, feelings, and with feelings, actions, and with actions, results. I've learned to never give up on yourself and optimism is really a tool to exploit. I believe that there is a reason for everything that has happened, that there is a better life to be made. I do not smoke, because I never felt the need to, and never will. However, I do drink, socially. I've got great friends who are like family to me and I don't think I could get by much of life without their undying love and support. I think the world needs to be saved - from our hatred, our cruelty and our selfishness. I make mistakes, I loose myself, I find myself and I reason with myself, because I want to be who I can be, and who I will be.
I am Marcus Chow.
In all of Life and nothing less, we find the thing we call success.
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3 comments:
the thing about human is they don't SEE what 'situation' they are in.
A 'Perfect Fit' may lead to complacency and a 'Not at all' appears to be challenging. And this challenge pose as an excitement to hang on to an unrewarding relationship....hmmm....
hmmm... Well, I suppose I learned the "hanging on to an unrewarding relationship" in the hard way.
But all said, to me the perfect fit means 2 people in terms of chemistry, honesty, comfort and compatibility... all either matches up or compliments each other. What ever happens between them, is really a greater, divine plan.
This does not entail 2 people needing to end up together or apart.
:)
I agree with you. Relationship is all but the effort put in by two parties to make it work after realising firstly that they fit, and then what fit they are in and lastly if they really wanted to be fitted together. And the main big chunk of that effort is frank, honest, and sincere communication, with mutual love of course.
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